The main meal of the day in this region took place in the late afternoon, when the heat subsided. It was often held outdoors or in a ventilated space, so that the guests could rest and enjoy the cool air.
Simon, called “the former leper,” who had certainly been healed by the Messiah Jesus, had invited him and his disciples. helped with the serving, since the guests were numerous. This meal was not a private gathering between Jesus, Simon and a few close friends: a good number of the inhabitants of Bethany were probably present.
The event thus took on a communal dimension, going beyond the family circle, which magnified the impact of the gesture that was about to follow.
Mary (Mary of Bethany) owned a very costly perfume, set aside for burial. Hearing the Messiah Jesus speak of his approaching death, she understands that the moment has come: she pours this perfume on him, offering what she has most precious to the one who means everything to her. Her gesture is public, solemn and deeply personal.
Matthew and Mark report that several disciples murmured among themselves that this money could have been given to the poor. John specifies that Judas Iscariot was the origin of this criticism, and that he drew other disciples into his judgment. He also adds a piece of information that the apostles understood only later: Judas, who kept the common purse, was embezzling money.
There is therefore no contradiction between the accounts: Matthew and Mark describe the collective reaction, while John reveals the instigator of this reproach.
Faced with the opposition stirred up against Mary, the Messiah Jesus steps in with authority to defend her. He points out that her gesture has a prophetic significance, directly linked to his imminent burial. Luke, for his part, does not see fit to include this episode in his gospel, although he reports another, unrelated one, in which a sinful woman anoints Jesus (Luke 7.36-50.
In the light of later events, we understand that none of the apostles suspected Judas’s dealings at that moment. If they had had the slightest doubt, they would not have let him manage the purse. One can easily imagine how Peter would have reacted.
When did this event take place? 6 days before Passover as John 12.1 indicates, or on Wednesday as Mark 14.1 and Matthew 26.2 state?
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